jq datetime picker theme and formatting

Hi guys, a minor issue with the control. I used the same jquery library and css file on my test but not getting to replicate the design shown in jq site demos.

1] How to add previous and next button
2] How to format date to dd/MMM/yyyy
3] How to datepicker change theme/color like how the demo was made (see image below).

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Thanks in advance.

BTW love the thread editor and the upload features rock!!! Is it powered by jquery also?

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